Why it’s better to educate and advocate when asked a challenging question about your pit bull.

I was walking Piper around the neighborhood last week. We came across a couple walking their senior Chocolate Lab. His name was Marley and he was 13. I asked if their dog was okay with puppy energy and, hesitantly, they said he was fine.

Piper went up to do a totally appropriate greeting (you know butt sniffing and all that good stuff) and she adjusted her exuberant puppy energy to match the slower interaction of the older gentleman dog until it was clear that he was enjoying her company. Then she went into play bow and he did the same much to his owner’s surprise. “He never does that anymore,” she said with a careful smile. It was lovely.

However, the first question the woman asked me was, “Have you seen any signs of aggression in her…yet?” (Did I mention that Piper is a pit bull mix?)

“Yet” Like it’s a foregone conclusion that Piper will inevitably become aggressive.

In that moment, I felt that I had two choices. I could either yell and scream and throw around terms like “closed-minded” or “part of the problem” OR I could make it a teachable moment. I, wisely, chose the latter.

Dog breed does not determine aggression or reactivity. Simon is a leash-reactive yellow lab.

Simon: The Sarcastic Dog

I explained how I had come to volunteer with ColoRADogs, a rescue focused on education and advocacy. I shared how it was actually my rescue lab, Simon who has leash reactivity issues with other dogs and talked about our training classes at Longmont Humane Society and Piper’s popularity at daycare. I whipped out my camera and showed the couple pictures of Piper playing with, sleeping with, simply being with other dogs.

Is it possible that Piper could become aggressive? Yes. Just like any dog can become aggressive. Please re-read that last sentence because it’s really important. Any dog can become aggressive. There have been no legitimate scientific studies that indicate that any one type of dog is inherently more aggressive than another and there have, in fact, been several studies that debunk the myth that breed specific legislation (BSL) does anything to make communities safer.

Sarcastic Dog is dedicated to education and advocacy for all dogs. Simon, the yellow lab is leash reactive and Piper the pit mix is not aggressive - go figure.

Simon and Piper Snoozing

Just like with people, behavior is complicated and, despite what some say, it is not all in how they are raised. That is a part of it but while it sounds supportive to say, “It’s all in how they are raised,” in terms of advocating for pit bull type dogs, this actually does a disservice to education and advocacy efforts.

If the only determining factor is the environment in which a dog is raised, then how do we explain the many dogs that have come from fighting cases and abuse and neglect situations that have been successfully rehabilitated? How is it possible that some of these dogs have gone on to be therapy or service dogs? What about the dog that was raised in a loving home that suddenly lashes out and bites? Yes, environment is important. So are socialization, training, nutrition, physical and mental health and a bunch of unknowns that we are still trying to figure out as humans.

It’s a learning curve for all of us – dog or human. On the day Piper and I met Marley, I chose to hear this woman’s concerns and to meet her fears with gentleness and by sharing my understanding of what I have learned so far. (There is so much more to learn!)

Piper and I walked along with Marley and his people for quite some time and by the time we parted ways, they were petting Piper and genuinely seemed more relaxed and comfortable with my red nosed little girl. Mission accomplished. One dog, one person at a time.

Pit bull type dogs are not inherently any more aggressive than any other type of dogs. We need to educate ourselves because what is on the human end of the leash is critical.

Piper the Red Nose Pit Bull

How do you handle uncomfortable questions about your dog?


Other installments in the Changing the Conversation series:

Myths & Misconceptions: Bronwen Dickey Changing the Conversation About the Misunderstood Pit Bull

My Pit Bull Story

Stop Asking Pit Bull Owners These 6 Questions

Myths About Pit Bulls: Let’s Dispel Some More


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18 Comments

  1. Cheri Hoffer February 20, 2016 at 8:22 pm - Reply

    Imagine a world where we all take a deep breath and respond respectfully to moments of discomfort or challenge. Good job. Reactivity to such questions confirms to others that not only their stereotypes of pitties must be true, but that pittie owners are aggressive too!

    • SimonDawg February 22, 2016 at 11:06 am - Reply

      I agree, Cheri. If we could apply this practice to all areas of life, what a wonderful shift we would see in the world. I’m glad you liked the post and I really appreciate the comment.

  2. Kelly February 25, 2016 at 11:03 am - Reply

    You went from happy to having the “happy” taken out of you with just those few words from someone. I’m sure as hard as if was for you, you choose the “right road” to take the time to explain.

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 11:13 am - Reply

      That’s a great way to put it, Kelly. I did have the happy kind of crushed for a moment there.

  3. Sweet Purrfections February 25, 2016 at 12:16 pm - Reply

    You handled that very well. Sometimes, it’s hard not to believe the stories you hear about different breeds of dogs and education definitely helps.

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 12:21 pm - Reply

      Thanks! It can be so hard, especially in the moment, to breathe and move beyond being upset or offended by someone’s comment or question in order to gently share information.

  4. Cathy Armato February 25, 2016 at 12:26 pm - Reply

    Terrific post! Great job taking the Educate Them road, that’s the smart thing to do – one person at a time. When I see people with Pitties I always make a point of smiling and saying something positive like “Nice dog”, “pretty girl”, to show support. A friend of mine used to dress her sweet Pit in a pink floral dress when they were out in public to make her more approachable. We live in Phoenix and the only issue about my Husky’s breed I hear is “Doesn’t the heat bother her?” and “Why do you have a Husky in Phoenix?!” Rather than go back at them with nasty retorts, I educate them that Huskies can live anywhere and that their double Undercoat insulates against heat as well as cold. She actually loves laying in the morning sun! Education is always better than picking a fight. You’re so right about BSL, it is inhumane and ineffective!
    Love & Biscuits,
    Dogs Luv Us and We Luv Them

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 1:30 pm - Reply

      Thanks for the support Cathy! And, thanks for sharing that info about Husky undercoats insulating against the heat as well as the cold. I didn’t know that 🙂

  5. M. K. Clinton February 25, 2016 at 12:56 pm - Reply

    It is always best to try to educate with kindness but sometimes other’s prejudices make it difficult. It sounds as if you handled the situation perfectly.

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 1:32 pm - Reply

      Thanks, M.K.!

  6. Ruth and Layla February 25, 2016 at 2:34 pm - Reply

    Important to educate – thanks for the great article

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply

      Thanks!

  7. Nichole February 25, 2016 at 2:43 pm - Reply

    Great post! Handled very well.

    • SimonDawg February 25, 2016 at 4:43 pm - Reply

      Thanks! Glad you liked the post.

  8. fivesibesmom February 25, 2016 at 11:03 pm - Reply

    I always believe education is key. Great informative post!

    • SimonDawg February 29, 2016 at 11:00 am - Reply

      Thanks! I appreciate you taking the time to read the piece and am glad you found it informative.

  9. sadieandco February 26, 2016 at 6:09 am - Reply

    I could not agree more! We won’t get anywhere in an argument; people just switch off. To really make a change we need to take that step back and make each situation an opportunity to educate. Well done to you!

    • SimonDawg February 29, 2016 at 11:02 am - Reply

      Sometime it’s really hard. There have definitely been encounters where I’ve really wanted to respond in a less mature manner 😉

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