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The Trick: Overcoming a Fear of the Car (A work in progress)
Piper has always been a little leery of the car. My sweet fun-loving girl becomes, literally, a trembling ball of mush when she thinks we are going to the car. If we head down the stairs from our courtyard and take a left to walk around the neighborhood, no problem. But, if I dare to turn right at the bottom of the stairs towards the parking lot, she freezes on the spot and suddenly weighs 1000 pounds and has no interest in treats. (in the video below, my friend was holding an awesome liver snack but Piper was too terrified to even look at the treat 🙁 )
There are two problems with this: first, sometimes we really do need to get in the car (vet visits, doggie daycare, play dates, dog-friendly events etc.); and, second the sidewalk along the edge of the parking lot leads to the open space trails that she loves.
Despite never having had a bad experience in the car (knock on wood), Piper’s fear of the car has become increasingly worse prompting me to cease even trying to get her into the car to go to the places she loves.
Piper at day care, a place she loves, all dressed up for Halloween 2015
I spoke with the trainer, read several posts from fellow bloggers (thank you to Carol from Fidose of Reality) and spoke with the vet about how best to support Piper in overcoming her fear of the car using positive training, natural calming products and really awesome treats.
It became clear that, for Piper’s sake, I needed to back things WAY up and not even try to put her in the car. For the past month, we have (thankfully) not had to go to the vet, I cancelled daycare, and we have skipped any and all events that require a car ride.
Step 1
When we go out for a walk, instead of taking my whole key chain, I leave my car keys in the house and just put a house key in my pocket. We started with playing a game called “Check it out” where I place a treat a few feet in front of us and say “check it out”. Then I wait until Piper to move forward to get her treat. We did this for the first week all around the courtyard and finally made it over to the top of the stairs without her freezing up.
Just sitting on the bench by the parking lot. There were LOTS of treats!
Step 2
We continued the “check it out” game trying to get down the stairs. We were able to get down the stairs easily and as long as I immediately went to the left, Piper wouldn’t put on the brakes but if I even thought about going to the left, we were done. I didn’t want to push Piper so we would head back up the stairs and do some fun thing in the courtyard to end on a positive note. This went on for two weeks and I was finally able to get her to walk a few feet to the right where we sat on a bench and watched the parking lot for about 15 minutes before heading back to the courtyard.
I also engaged one of our neighbors, Paul, who Piper LOVES in the effort to make the parking lot less scary. Paul came out to the courtyard and we all walked down the stairs and to the right towards the parking lot. Piper was too excited to notice that she was scared until we were a few feet into the parking lot but as soon as she did, we simply walked to a grassy area and hung out for a bit on the perimeter of the parking lot where she received lots of praise and treats. We played for a bit in the grass and then went right back up to the courtyard.
Step 3
Last week, I got Simon, one of my other dogs, into the action. We made it into the parking lot and just started walking around the parked cars. I asked the dogs to sit by different cars. I offered all kinds of praise and treats. At first, Piper didn’t want to sit near any of the cars but eventually she not only sat but was calm enough to take treats. She wouldn’t sit or take treats near our car.
We did this all week and, FINALLY, she sat calmly by our car and took treats. We, of course, ended each practice session with fun playtime in the courtyard.
Piper siting calmly by our car – WOOT!!
Progress to date
There is no question that patience is the key to success when overcoming a fear. While we have made great progress, we still have a ways to go before I will attempt to get Piper in the car. Over the past month, we have made it from being frozen at the top of the stairs (see video above) to being able to walk through the parking lot to actually being able to sit by the car calmly enough to take a treat.
Next up: we will work on staying calm and unafraid while just opening the car door.
Training requires so much patience! Sounds like you’re doing everything you can, good job!
Patience has definitely not been one of my virtues 😉 I am learning as much as Piper.
My dog loves car rides!
My two labs LOVE the car but Piper wants nothing to do with it. We’re working on it 🙂
Wow! What a great giveaway! Rosa was scared for over a year to get in the car. With a lot of hard work and coaxing she is now jumping in on her own. She still isnt a big fan or car rides but baby steps…
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I would love to hear how you managed to get Rosa to overcome the fear! We need to talk 😉
Don’t have a dog, so no. Cat person that’d love to win the Petsmart card. Any doggie treats would be donated.
That Petsmart gift card is pretty awesome! Good luck in the giveaway!
My dog doesn’t know any tricks. She’s cute, though.
Ha! I totally get that! We are a constant work in progress over here and none of my dogs seem to know the same tricks! 😉
We are a shake and lay down kind of family!
Only one of my three has mastered shake. 😉
My dogs love riding in a car
Two of my three are always up for a car ride. 🙂
I haven’t had any issues with car rides with my pups. But this is a great resource for helping overcoming lots of different types of fears.
Thanks, Caitlyn! I hope it helps someone. Hopefully, I will be able to provide an update soon of a picture of Piper in the car looking relaxed and happy 🙂
What great advice! My dog doesn’t have any fear of the car but great to know if i get another dog that does!
Thanks, Allison! I’ll keep everyone posted on Piper’s progress 🙂
all 3 of my girls are great in the car. the youngest likes to sit on the console (they all have seatbelts). the youngest used to get car sick, her mother was the same way, but now she is great. they like to look out the window, which is why i have nose art all over my car windows. the oldest does not ride well now, she used to be great, when everywhere, but with old age, dementia, deaf, almost blind, she does not like to ride now. my oldest knows lots of tricks, she was a very fast learner, the 2 younger girls know a few, it takes time and being consistent to train to do tricks.
HAHA! Nose art is the best! 😉 Simon (9) and Zora(13) LOVE the car but Simon is INSANE in the car. He has to be crated because otherwise he is bouncing all over the place! 😉 Piper is just so terrified. I think she gets nauseated and so associates the car with feeling terrible. We’re working on it 🙂
Layla loves car rides and if she could she would jump into any car that has a door open
That’s Simon and Zora for sure!
we don’t know this trick!
It’s more of an exercise in patience than a trick 😉 It’s just really working slowly and taking cues from Piper in order to move through the fear.
Thanks for sharing this Alison! It’s helpful to learn how others handle training challenges. Kiara feared the car for a few days so I gave her a treat after lifting her in. It helped and now I take her to deliver kids to school everyday - she loves it. We are currently working on not barking at everything when she’s on leash. It takes lots of patience!
I’m so glad you found it helpful! It’s definitely slow going. I may have to borrow your kids and Kiara one day to see if having them in the car would ease Piper’s anxiety 🙂 Patience, patience, patience (as you know, not one of my virtues 😉 )
Love hearing about Piper’s progress. I’m still trying to teach Miso to stay.
Thanks! It definitely feels like baby steps! Stay is tough but I can help you with that one! 🙂
Good trick, fortunately my dog isn’t afraid of the car.
My other two would spend the whole day in the car if I let them but Piper really hates the car. We made a little more progress today so I am hopeful that with time and patience, we will get to a point where she at least isn’t terrified.
great trick but we don’t need it! my baby girl loveesssss the car!
Thanks! I’m glad you don’t have to deal with this. I have three and Piper is the only one that refuses to go willingly into the car.
These are good tips. My dog loves car rides though! :p
Thanks! Piper loves it whenever we get where we are going but the car ride has become so traumatic that I can’t put her through it until we can reduce the fear. My other two dogs love riding in the car even if all we do is drive around.
My dog has a lot of anxiety so we do things like this but not with the car. She LOVES the car. When she is stressed we will let her into the garage and open the car door so she can sleep in there and relax!
I will admit to being a little jealous that your dog actually relaxes and sleeps in the car 😉 It is tough to deal with anxieties and it’s so hard to watch your dog being stressed/nervous/afraid.
he does know it but he’s very stubborn and will only do it when he feels like it lol
I am way too familiar with “stubborn puppy syndrome” 😉
I hope Piper continues making progress!
Thank you!! We actually made a little more progress today. Of course, I broke out the cheese sticks and cubed turkey log 😉
My dogs get so excited to go in the car. I will have to work with them. I can’t imagine them just calmly sitting next to it!
My oldest girl, Zora, gets in the car and just sits calmly. My middle dog, Simon is like the Tasmanian Devil in the car if he’s not crated and when he is crated he whines and barks THE WHOLE RIDE wherever we are going. (good times 😉 ) Piper literally freezes and shakes in the car.
Great patience and work. I noticed a Colorado plate in the car lot. Small world. We’re in the Mile High City ourselves. 🙂
P.S. Saw your blog over at Heart Like a Dog.
Hi! Thanks for stopping by the blog! Nice to “meet” a fellow Coloradan! I checked out your blog as well and would love to hear more about the pet therapy work you do. 🙂
Nala and Cody do okay in the car but Nala shakes from excitement the entire time.
Only one of my three, Zora, is calm and relaxed in the car. Piper is terrified and Simon is a whirling dervish 😉
Amazing progress! I wonder why your dog was so terrified.. Our dog loves going for car rides but a few minutes in, she starts whining like crazy because she doesn’t know where we are. Not sure how to train her out of that!
Thanks! It’s definitely slow going and often feels like it’s one step forward, two steps WAY back 😉 The vet thinks that perhaps Piper is feeling sick in the car and associates the car with feeling bad. Once we can get to a point where she can sit in the car (with the car off) and be relaxed, then we can try an anti-nausea medicine when we are ready to drive somewhere. Simon, one of my other dogs, whines the whole time we are driving anywhere (not super enjoyable) because he is way too excited to get wherever we are going.
Our malamute LOVES the car! He’s up and in it as soon as the door opens.
Same with my two labs. It’s just Piper who can’t seem to overcome the fear. The worst part is that we always go someplace fun so she’s really missing out!
My dog loves cuddling in my bed!
Not sure I’d count that as a trick 😉
Thankfully my dogs aren’t scared of cars, but when a motorcycle goes by one of mine goes crazy!
Motorcycles can be terrifying! None of my dogs like them 😉
My dogs know tons of tricks. They are very intelligent, very high energy dogs that need to be doing something or learning something to keep them happy. It’s created a great bond, too.
Training tricks is such a great way to work their minds and burn off some energy and I agree, great way to bond with our dogs!
My dogs don’t know any tricks - we haven’t worked with them on anything
I would highly recommend getting some training going. It’s a great way to exercise their minds. Even if you just help them master “sit”, “stay”, “down” it will make your life easier 🙂
My dog does not know this trick.
It’s not so much a trick as it is a way to overcome a fear - patience and treats. Once we can get her to be okay with me opening the car door, the trick will be something like “up” to encourage her to jump in the car.
He does not know this trick, his only tricks are sit, shake and get your pillow.
I like the “get your pillow” idea. I want to teach my dogs “pick up your toys” but that’s probably a lot to ask 😉
My dogs know how to spin and then sit to catch a treat.
We have no problem with the catching of treats over here 😉
my dog isnt afraid until we get on the hwy and then he needs your lesson
The highway is terrifying so I totally get your dog’s fear 😉 Can you bring him a stuffed frozen Kong or some other high value treat or toy that you can give him to distract him as you are getting on the highway?
my dogs both love car rides!
Two of my three love the car but Piper things it’s absolutely terrifying! It makes me sad because we are missing out on so many things that she loves to do. Fingers crossed that we will get her past the fear.
That sucks that your dog is so terrified they won’t even go into the parking lot. Something must’ve happened, other than the possibility of nausea in the vehicle.
My dog isn’t fond of the vehicle. He really only goes to the vet and the very, very rare car ride. We pretty much beg him to get in the vehicle. Treats don’t work in stressful situations for him.
I started fostering Piper when she was about 12 weeks old so it is entirely possible that something happened before I got her. I know that she made the trip with some of her siblings from California so who knows what happened on the way to Colorado. We have the same issue with treats being useless once she’s already stressed.
Rolly knows no tricks.
What have you tried to teach him?
I’m entering to win the gift card for my sister, who is a cat lady! I’m not sure her cats know any tricks, beyond driving her crazy.
Ha! None of my cats ever did tricks. Mostly, they just gave me side eye if I tried to teach them anything 😉 Good luck in the giveaway!
Aw, poor worried Piper! My mom’s dog Scout hated the car, as your vet suspected, due to feeling nauseous. My mom eventually worked him through it. Good for you for taking it slowly!
We made a little more progress yesterday but I just don’t want to rush her. My big fear is that before we’ve worked her through it, we will have an emergency and I’ll have to make her go in the car which will undo all our progress.
My Coco loves car rides so I never had to teach her to get over anxiety of getting in a car.
Yeah… this is a first for me for sure. My other two dogs can’t wait to get in the car!
My dog doesn’t know any tricks. I’ve tried to teach her several times in the past but she just doesn’t get it.
I’m hoping she at least has “sit”, “stay” and “come” down - if just to make your life a little easier.
None of our dogs have any fear of the car. When we first got Mickey he was hesitant to get in and then would sit frozen in his spot for about the first month or so. He overcame this fear quickly, I think, partly due to his age (he was less than a year old at the time we adopted him) and because we almost always went fun places when we got in the car. Now he loves the car and the other 2 have never shown any fear.
You are so lucky. Piper is the first dog I’ve had with a fear of the car. With Piper, unfortunately, it seems like her fear has gotten worse not better. She will be two in November and I’m really hoping we can figure out a plan to get her through this fear so we can start doing things again.
SO sad for you and your dog but it sounds like you are an amazing dog owner! Kudos for you and your patience with training your pup!
Thanks for saying that.:-)
Wow, poor Piper. Did she go in the car before? Is it possible she gets carsick (not like vomiting, but maybe nauseous?) I can’t imagine how hard this is for both of you, thankfully you understand that patience is the key. I’m glad she has you on her side.
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She was never excited about being in the car but it has definitely gotten worse the past six-eight months. The vet suggested anti-nausea and anti-anxiety meds but we can’t even try those until we can get her to just sit in the parked car without freezing up. One day at a time for sure 😉
My dog does not know this trick but I plan to teach it to him.
If your dog has any fears, patience, lots of treats and lots of praise should help.
My dog is not afraid in the car.
You are very fortunate 🙂
My oldest dog used to love getting into the car. Now, she is heavier and seems to fear getting into the car using a ramp. I think she is afraid of the height. I need to use your awesome ideas to get her over this.
I’ve been considering a ramp for my oldest dog, Zora as she is struggling to get in the car or on the bed these days. If your dog is treat motivated, I would imagine that lots of treats might help with getting her to use the ramp. Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Oh, Piper is so cute, and I feel so bad for her being so afraid! I know what it’s like to have fearful dogs and working through things is such a long, long process. Our girls don’t love to ride in the car, but not to that extent, so it’s been easier to work with them on it.
You are doing so great….she’s really made a lot of progress!
Thank you so much for saying that! It’s so hard not to focus on all the things she is missing out on but I do see progress so I am hopeful that she can overcome the fear so we can get back out there 🙂
only one of my dogs gets anxious in the car. I usually crate him and that helps
I do crate Simon and Piper in the car - Simon because he bounces around like a crazy dog and Piper because I think she feels a little safer but right now, I can’t even get her to get in the car willingly and I don’t want to make it worse by forcing her into the car.
We take road trips all the time- so lucky she loves the car
That’s what I miss the most - being able to just load everyone up in the car to go exploring!
I have never had a dog that did not love a car ride. One of our dogs can’t get enough of our truck or car and refuses to get out. He has no problem getting out at the Vet’s office but does not want to come in the house. I just leave him until he’s ready whenever possible. At 14, he’s allowed to be a little quirky.
I know, right?!?! Dogs are supposed to LOVE car rides 😉 Seriously, Piper is the only dog I’ve ever had who has serious fear issues. (Thunder, wind, cars, plastic bags…) One of mine is almost 14 and I completely agree - they get to be a little quirky at this age 🙂
My dog loves to go in the car. He actually heads toward the car when we are actually going for a walk.
I had a dog growing up that would do that. Every time we walked out the front door, she would walk straight to the car and sit by the back door in hope that we were going for a ride 😉
Our 3 dogs love to riding in the car they usually are going to go to the beach or the park
Simon and Zora have no problem getting in the car but Piper seems to forget that we always go someplace fun. 😉
Our dogs love in the car.We never had trouble with them going for a ride in the car.
That’s awesome! 🙂
My dogs aren’t afraid to get in the car.
You are extremely fortunate. It makes it tough to get out and about and do the things we love to do as a family.
Oh we have one rescue who is deathly afraid of the leash! It is so hard to take him anywhere, I should try this with him. See if we can get him over this huge hurdle he has.
It’s so hard - especially when it stops you and your dog from doing the things you love. With leash fear, I would start with gently desensitizing him to the leash. Have the leash in the room with you and treat him. Slowly bring the leash closer (this may take days/weeks) and treat him. Eventually, you want to work up to him associating the leash with treats and praise. Best of luck! Let us know how it goes.
great tips ! YoYo love to ride in the car but my daughters dog does not. i will pass your trick along to her.
Thanks! Best of luck to your daughter. It’s a combination of patience, treats and more patience 😉
My dog does not know this trick.
Less of a trick and more of a method to work on overcoming a fear.
My dogs all love the car and want to go every time we do. Mackey used to get carsick but outgrew it.
Piper has only gotten sick in the car one time but I do think she feels sick in the car which is one of the reasons she hates it so much.
We are definitely lucky since Shasta loves to ride in the car!
You are indeed lucky 🙂
Not at all she loves the car rides - long distance she’s better than the kids
Same with my oldest dog 😉
Both of my shelties are great car travelers.
You are very lucky. Really only one of my three dogs is a good traveler.
My dog loves car rides and we have to watch out or she will jump in the car and refuse to get out.
HA! My childhood dog was like that! Always up for the adventure and never wanted to adventure to end 😉
So happy to hear that Piper is doing so well with her progress! Our Staffie, Reina just passed away last year from old age. We miss her every day.
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Thank you, Sarah! My heart goes out to you and your family on the loss of Reina. They leave such an incredible mark on our lives <3
Unfortunately my dog is the exact opposite. She will run up to cars even in the middle of the road especially if one of her family members is in it. Something we have been trying to work on. Thank you!
That is scary, Erin! I wish I had some insight on how to address that issue. I feel like sometimes, no matter how well trained a dog might me, when they want to get to something, they lose all memory of “stay”, “down”, “come” or any other command that would redirect them away from whatever they are chasing.
I haven’t been able to teach my sweet 14 year old dog this at all. He still thinks car means the Vet.
Thankfully, none of my dogs are afraid of the vet. Unfortunately, we still haven’t identified exactly what it is that Piper is so afraid of with the car.
I know you and Piper will overcome this! It will be a long journey no doubt, but your love and patience (and lots of treats, of course!) will go a long way!
Thanks so much! I can’t wait for you to come back over and work with me and Piper some more! 🙂
No, Bo is 5 and he is use to riding.
My dog really likes being in the car!
My dog never had any fear of the car. Just the opposite, he gets so excited when he saw us get in the car that sometimes he drives us crazy
That’s how Simon is! If I don’t crate hime in the car he bounces around, whining, barking and being a general safety hazard 😉
My 3 dogs love riding in the car and have no issues with getting in. I used to have a Westie that had to be tranquilized to ride in in the car - he went crazy anything he got in.
It may be that Piper will have to take some sort of anti-anxiety meds at some point because, eventually, she will need to get in the car.
Thankfully ours are not afraid of the car - they are excited to go somewhere, but also are excited to leave the doggie park (they let me know when they are through) Some whine in the car, others are silent - it’s a mixed bag w/4 dogs 🙂
Wow! I thought three was a lot! Sounds like you have a great crew!:-)
My dog was rescued from a puppy mill where she was “breeding stock”. That said, she’s afraid of so many thing, but she loves going for car rides.
Thank you for rescuing! (Don’t get me started on puppy mills!)
My dog doesn’t know this trick. I have a 4 year old Boxer, & she’s really hyper and gets excited easily.. so sometimes she has difficulty trying to pay attention long enough to learn tricks lol.
That would be my Simon. He barely passed a training class because he was convinced it was a party for him! 😉
My dog was shy just the first time getting into the car (after we had rescued her)., but when I got in first, she jumped right in and she’s so chill while riding I can’t believe it.
Only my oldest dog could be described as “chill” in the car 😉 You are very lucky! 🙂
My dog never had an issue in the car until we were rearended recently. Everyone was basically fine (minor soreness/bruises). Thankfully, she was restrained. But she was very jumpy about loud noises & had almost panic attacks in the car…panting, crying, you can feel her heart racing if you touch her chest, etc. It took about 5 weeks and a new thundershirt but she did recover with training & is back to being calm in the car. She takes longer to fall asleep than before though…so hopefully that will come.
I’m so glad everyone was okay! I can totally understand your pup’s reaction to being the car following that and I’m glad to hear that she is making progress.
Cool trick
My dog loves being in the car. He has never been afraid
She is beautiful! My big boy doesn’t know this trick yet, but I will definitely have to remember to start teaching him… such an awesome girl she is!
Thanks! I think she’s pretty cute too 😉
Great post! Love that you are taking it slow, it’s takes such patience. good for you! Piper is making progress, so exciting. I’m guessing she got motion sickness when she was younger and hangs onto that association. Dang! I love that you are adding in the play to the sessions. Play comes up as helping humans as well as dogs deal with stress, just read a new study on this topic. hang in there, you’ll get Piper there and then laugh about the experience some day. I so admire your perseverance & kindness!
Thank you for the encouragement! I’m hoping I can get us to a point where we are able to play in the car while it’s parked so she develops happier association with the car and then try some anti-nausea meds to help her feel better in the car.
No dog. I’d love the gc and any treats, etc would go to my local shelter. What a brave girl you have! My cat is terrified of being in the car. I put his towel in his carrier and things from home that comfort him. I also talk to him on the way to the vet so he knows he isn’t alone.
My cats weren’t really terrified but, boy were they vocal when we would go in the car 😉
My three rescued Treeing Walker Coonhounds aren’t the best about riding in the car, but none of them is deathly afraid of it, either. I lost my deaf hound girl, Ran, 1-1/2 years ago and am missing her so much. She was my car buddy - the best shotgun rider who has ever ridden in the car with me (and I drive rescue transports and often have rescue dogs ride shotgun with me). I really need to get my pack out for short drives to get them comfortable with being in the car. I’d like to some day make a longer trip with them.
My oldest, Zora, is great in the car and it is my hope is to get Piper comfortable in the car and to get Simon calm and quiet in the car so that I can take the whole crew on more outings and eventually hit the road with them for some bigger adventures.
My dogs love the car! Our great dane was scared of the car when we got her, but she overcame it pretty quickly.
I would gift the prize(s) to my friend. She has multiple dogs and all of them love the car!
My dogs love car rides and we just make them stay in the back seat.
No never had one that was afraid in the car.
My dog is not afraid of the car. I think this process would work great for almost anything your dog fears though. Thanks for sharing your progress.
Thanks, Melissa! I hope it’s helpful for folks working on overcoming fear.
Those are some fantastic prizes! Nelly and Theo love to go for car rides, but Sophie seems anxious in the car.
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Zora is chill, Simon is definitely anxious/excited but Piper just freezes 🙁
Luckily my dogs not afraid of the car! He loves it!
Mine love car rides because it means going to something fun!
That’s the worst part - we always go someplace fun! She isn’t afraid of the vet or any place that we actually go - just the means of getting there.
My dog is working on this trick. She’s a timid rescue but smart and wants to do well.
Hi Alison,
This is my first visit here.
I love how you’re working with Piper on her fear of the car. It’s wonderful to see the results of positive no-force training. The rewards for our dogs and for us are really immeasurable!
I’m a positive training evangelist and tell anyone and their dog how fantastic these methods are. Charley my senior girl was terribly abused before she became part of our family. She was afraid of her own shadow. She’s so much better now and we’re working on supporting her everyday to be relaxed and more comfortable.
She’s blossomed into a beautiful and mostly confident girl. All thanks to the positive no-force training and of course plenty of love.
Thanks for this great article.
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Hi Rosemary! Thank you so much for stopping by and for your encouragement as I work with Piper on overcoming this fear. Very much appreciated 🙂 (PS. Looking forward to checking out your post about the best vacuum cleaner for dog hair!)
My dog is a little tricky to train, whenever i try to teach him something new he panics because he wants the treat so bad and does all the other tricks he knows in succession 🙂 its pretty cute
That sounds super cute! Get that on video! 🙂